In few situations, you feel that, what did I do wrong? You would have put all the efforts, genuine effort, but still, it does not yield the required efforts. In some cases, you would have shown a genuine concern, there is nothin wrong but the other person never understands it. Either there is hatred all round or it just continues until you feel that, whatever you know about yourself might be wrong.
It is difficult to sometimes take something and throw it away and forget about it. But why there are people who do not even attempt to do it. It may not be easy, but if one is able to do it, there will be peace all around. Otherwise I feel, those unwanted things keep coming up every now and then.
In relationships, there are situations which cannot be changed, it happens for a reason. The reason could be anything, but it happens and no one cannot change it. But, the uncontrolled situation keeps coming up in every discussion no matter how hard you try to keep it away and no matter how hard you look the other way. It causes only pain nothing more.
There is a saying "If there are things under your control, why worry about and if there are things that are not under your control then why worry at all". It simply means there is no need to worry at all because if there are things are really under your control, then you would have give it 200% and if there are things that one can't control, then irrespective of how much you like to control it, you can't and you will end up in desperation and frustration. Why this simple feeling is not understood by many?
There is no conclusions to this topic! until the feel of one another understood and people don't learn to forget and move on and never look back and unless people live in the present and enjoy every second of it and unless people appreciate the genuine nature of concern, well being of other and unless people appreciate what they have instead comparing with others and unless people don't realise that they can live happily by forgetting and ignoring few situations. There will always be situation which you may not like, but you can't expect every one to be perfect. That is the reason, every one of us should learn to forget and not have grudge about anything and simply leave it to fade away from the memory and use the precious memory to learn new things, live happily.
It is difficult to sometimes take something and throw it away and forget about it. But why there are people who do not even attempt to do it. It may not be easy, but if one is able to do it, there will be peace all around. Otherwise I feel, those unwanted things keep coming up every now and then.
In relationships, there are situations which cannot be changed, it happens for a reason. The reason could be anything, but it happens and no one cannot change it. But, the uncontrolled situation keeps coming up in every discussion no matter how hard you try to keep it away and no matter how hard you look the other way. It causes only pain nothing more.
There is a saying "If there are things under your control, why worry about and if there are things that are not under your control then why worry at all". It simply means there is no need to worry at all because if there are things are really under your control, then you would have give it 200% and if there are things that one can't control, then irrespective of how much you like to control it, you can't and you will end up in desperation and frustration. Why this simple feeling is not understood by many?
There is no conclusions to this topic! until the feel of one another understood and people don't learn to forget and move on and never look back and unless people live in the present and enjoy every second of it and unless people appreciate the genuine nature of concern, well being of other and unless people appreciate what they have instead comparing with others and unless people don't realise that they can live happily by forgetting and ignoring few situations. There will always be situation which you may not like, but you can't expect every one to be perfect. That is the reason, every one of us should learn to forget and not have grudge about anything and simply leave it to fade away from the memory and use the precious memory to learn new things, live happily.
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